" You're insecure, don't know what for.. "
Most girls, whether they admit it or not, have their insecurities- flaws that they cannot accept within themselves that they become awkward about it and their confidence becomes shorter. It's normal for a typical girl to feel this way- becoming conscious about how they look most of the time and frequently applies powder to cover the oily face they have. Seeing this girl today before I went home from school made me feel a little bit insecure because she has long hair, good skin, and good height- she is the it girl. While me- I have, acne, not so good skin, and my hair is as it is. I felt a little conscious about how I look a while ago- all the possible solutions to make me look good came running to my mind and I'm like, " I should be like her. ".
Then all of a sudden, I realized, I'M NOT HER. Maybe she really is born with good looks to be an instrument to all girls that everyone is beautiful in their own way. Though insecurities are just normal, we should not live with it everyday. And now I realized 4 ways to kills insecurities:
1. Wear your best everything. It's true that comfort is next to style. Wear all the best clothes that will make you feel and look good better. Do not dress to impress others, for it will only make you feel more conscious.
2. Avoid frequent use of compact mirrors. First, because it's annoying in the eye. Second, you can't stop doing it as long as you start holding it. Always make it a habit to look at a compact mirror 2-3 times a day only, not all the time.
3. Walk like the corridors are your runway. I admit, I do this every single day. I don't just walk like an average person, but instead I consider the walkways of the school like I'm practicing for a ramp model. When you walk confidently, everyone will notice you, believe me.
4. Smile. Smile to friends, and even strangers. Not only it will make you look confident, but it will also make you look approachable to people. It's the key to positive vibes everyday.
See, it's easy. You can always be at your best self if you will believe in yourself that you are a beautiful creature. Once you feel insecure, remember that there might be others who are insecure of you too, so better show off those positive vibrations you've got to make other people feel better too! :)
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